I’m Honoring Myself
Although I've managed to accomplish many of the goals that I set out to achieve in the midst of battling depression, the journey at times was extremely difficult. I had imposter syndrome before it was even considered a thing. In my twenties, I didn't know my worth and did not understand the concept of "you teach people how to treat you." As I was beginning to accomplish my career goals in my thirties, insecurity crept in, which prevented me from taking more chances in life. In my forties, I didn't stand firm in my power by saying NO enough to the people and things that did not bring joy to my soul. Now here I am in my mid-fifties. I’m still very much a work in progress, but I am proud of the woman that I am becoming. My self-love journey requires me to be intentional about protecting my peace and no longer compromising what I know to be true for myself. Here are some of the quotes that I read each day that remind me to protect and honor myself above all things:
“You've got to learn to leave the table When love's no longer being served". - Nina Simone
”No person is your friend who demands your silence or denies your right to grow.” -Alice Walker
”Walk away from friendships that make you feel small and insecure and seek out people who inspire and support you.” - Michelle Obama
“If you prioritize yourself, you are going to save yourself.” - Gabrielle Union
“I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change. I am changing the things I cannot accept.” - Angela Davis
“Don’t wait around for other people to be happy for you. Any Happiness you get you’ve got to make yourself.” - Angela Davis
“You’ve just got to follow your own path. You have to trust your heart and you have to listen to the warnings.” ― Chaka Khan
“I don’t have to prove anything to anyone. I only have to follow my heart and concentrate on what I want to say to the world. I run my world.” - Beyonce
“Deal with yourself as an individual worthy of respect, and make everyone else deal with you the same way. ” – Nikki Giovanni
I love quotes and for me, positive self-talk is an expression of self-love. How do you keep self-doubt at bay? I’d love to hear your story. Connect with me via email at info@sistahsconnect.com or send me a voice message to share your thoughts. Until next time…
